Understanding Nervous System Dysregulation in Children: A Guide for Homeschool Parents
Navigating the complexities of childhood behavior requires patience, understanding, and a proactive approach. Dr. Roseann Capanna-Hodge, an integrative mental health expert, recently shared invaluable insights on how parents can better support their children when they struggle with sensory dysregulation.
Imagine a bustling household with children of all ages—each with unique personalities and challenges. Some may struggle with focus, others with emotional outbursts or sensory defensiveness. These behaviors may not always signal clinical issues but are often manifestations of a dysregulated nervous system.
Reframing Children’s Behavior
Dr. Roseann emphasizes the importance of reframing how we view these behaviors. Rather than hastily labeling and diagnosing, it’s crucial to address these symptoms head-on. Signs of under and overstimulation—such as unfocused behavior, memory issues, and emotional irritability—are clues that our children’s nervous systems need better regulation.
One of the most poignant points made was the significance of parental self-regulation. Just as we set examples in other aspects of life, our emotional well-being directly impacts our children. Handling our critical language and personal triggers can create a more stabilizing environment. Children are like sponges, absorbing and mirroring our stress levels and coping mechanisms.
Create a calmer mealtime environment and involve your child in cooking and food choices. Such activities not only make meal times enjoyable but also improve their relationship with food, addressing sensory issues and picky eating habits. Small changes, like introducing a variety of nutritious foods and allowing the child to take responsibility and pride in their meals, can yield significant results.

Take an Aerial View to Assess Behavioral Challenges
Every child is unique, and there’s no one-size-fits-all solution. Dr. Roseann speaks to this with her 360° aerial view approach to behavioral issues. By observing, understanding antecedents, and considering sensory needs, parents can make more informed decisions about interventions. Whether it’s alternative therapies, dietary changes, or stress management techniques like breathwork, a multi-faceted approach can lead to meaningful improvements.
For parents wary about psychiatric medication, especially those raising children with autism, it’s empowering to know there are alternative interventions. Early, holistic interventions focusing on individual needs can positively influence learning, attention, and overall well-being.
Remember, the journey of addressing dysregulation and behavioral issues is complex, requiring consistent observation and understanding. Reinforcement and expert support are essential, especially for neurodivergent children. Brain scans and an understanding of stimulation levels can offer further insights into the nervous system’s role in managing stress.
To all parents navigating these challenging waters, you are not alone. Dr. Roseann provides a wealth of practical solutions and resources on her website and podcast, aimed at supporting both you and your child.
By fostering a nurturing environment, practicing self-regulation, and adopting a comprehensive approach, we can help our children thrive. Let’s commit to one impactful action today that could make a significant difference in their lives.
By implementing these insights and adapting to the unique needs of our children, we can create a foundational environment that goes beyond addressing immediate issues—setting the stage for lifelong resilience and well-being.

OT is IN #31: Cultivating Calm: Understanding Nervous System Dysregulation in Children and Practical Solutions for Parents
In this episode, Dr. Roseann and I explore the importance of moving beyond clinical labels to understand under and overstimulation signs such as unfocused behavior, memory issues, and emotional irritability. Dr. Roseann emphasizes the critical role of parental self-regulation in supporting children, discusses her disapproval of psychiatric medication as a frontline treatment, and advocates for alternative, empowering interventions.
Join us as we discuss the significance of a holistic, 360-degree approach to identifying and addressing behavioral issues, the power of breathwork, practical solutions for sensory and nutritional challenges, and the essential need for individualized therapy. We also highlight the importance of consistent parental reinforcement and the complexity of catering to neurodivergent children’s unique needs. Don’t miss this discussion packed with valuable insights and actionable strategies for parents and caregivers.
In this episode you’ll hear about:
- Nervous System Dysregulation in Children
- Impact on Behavior including: Unfocused behavior, Memory issues, Emotional irritability, Sensory defensiveness
- Approaching Behaviors without Clinical Labels
- Addressing dysregulated behaviors instead of focusing on labels
- Highlighting bio-individual nature of children’s behavior
- Parental Self-Regulation
- Importance of parental consistency and reinforcement
- Managing critical language and personal triggers
- Transitioning from a sympathetic to a parasympathetic state through breathwork
- Environmental changes to create a calmer mealtime atmosphere
- Alternative Interventions over Medication
- Addressing parents’ resistance to psychiatric medication
- Seeking alternative interventions for dysregulation in children with autism
- Early intervention with multiple approaches
- Empowering parents with individualized therapy
- Observing and Understanding Children’s Behavior
- Importance of consistent observation
- Identifying and understanding antecedents before addressing behaviors
- Observing the underlying reasons for children’s behavior
- Nutritional and Sensory Factors
- Sensory issues and nutrient deficiencies
- Impact of picky eating on the nervous system
- Introducing a variety of nutritious foods
- Cooking with kids to improve their relationship with food
- Seeking Expert Help
- Conducting brain scans to understand nervous system activity
- Accessing practical solutions and resources on Dr. Roseann’s website and podcast
- Importance of seeking personalized expert support for neurodivergent children
Links and Resources From Today’s Show
- Why Should I Seek Occupational Therapy?
- Self-Care & Sensory Regulation Tips for Parents
- Sensory Balanced Homeschool Focus Group
- Autism, Meltdowns, and the Struggle to Manage Emotions
- Dr Roseann, Calm Brain, Happy Family
Connect with our Guest, Dr. Roseann Capanna-Hodge
Dr. Roseann stands as a mental health pioneer, media persona, and the architect of The Global Institute of Children’s Mental Health, Neurotastic™ Brain Formulas and Dr. Roseann, LLC. She’s committed to altering mental health perceptions and interventions, offering a message of hope through science-endorsed methods that promote a calm brain. Her BrainBehaviorReset® Program and It’s Gonna be OK!™ Podcast has been a cornerstone for thousands facing daunting challenges such as PANS/PANDAS, OCD, anxiety, and ADHD/executive functioning, significantly bettering the lives of children and families.
